The nature of sexual fantasies is that they push the boundaries a bit, letting you imagine situations that occur infrequently, exploring the depths of your desires. Fantasies are not reality, and often challenge social barriers. Try something new, such as:
Women Take Charge
Have your sexual partner direct the sex script for the night. Sometimes a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it, many men tend to find a confident, sexual partner to be very exciting. Feeling pursued can be a very sexy change.
The most common men’s sexual fantasies are about their partner doing things they wouldn’t ordinarily do. Having your partner perform oral sex (if she doesn’t usually perform it) is a common fantasy, and the best news, no expensive props are required!
What could be better than one woman? Two! Chances are good that dreaming about a threesome is on the list of most men’s sexual desires.
Another common sexual fantasy is having anal sex with their partner. Men fantasize about what they aren’t getting, so ladies it’s time to try something new!
Voyeurism in general is near the top of the list of men’s sexual fantasies. It can be combined with other fantasies, including watching your significant other with another sexual partner or masturbating to orgasm, or even discovering other people in flagrante delicto.
A lot of men enjoy being submissive, as it runs contrary to the way they experience their lives outside of the bedroom. They enjoy being tied up, teased, tantalized, and spanked.
Sex in Public
Fantasies about having sex in public and being watched or discovered can fuel men’s sexual desires.
For some men, the fantasy of having total power over their partner in a sexual situation can be quite arousing. These types of men’s sexual fantasies might also include bondage and sadomasochistic elements that blend pain with sexual arousal.
A fetish can involve any number of body parts, such as feet, or objects, such as your lover’s underwear. Often, men’s sexual fantasies are wrapped up in things that typically aren’t included in their sex play. Fantasy is the perfect opportunity to safely experiment with how these fetishes could be included in your lovemaking.
For some, a strong men’s sexual fantasy involves dressing up and playing out new roles.
It is important for both men and women to push the boundaries, to maintain the flame burning throughout the years. On your next vacation, we invite you to try something new, while enjoying your own private playground.