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The nature of sexual fantasies is that they push the boundaries a bit, letting you imagine situations that occur infrequently, if at all, and exploring the depths of your desires. They are called fantasies because they are not reality, they are often taboo or challenge social barriers.


Desire Resorts considers these to be the top 10 most common sexual fantasies of men…

#1 Ladies Take Charge

Perhaps one of the simplest of men’s sexual fantasies is just having your sexual partner directing the sex script for the night. Whether it is a full-on dominatrix or simply a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it, many men tend to find a confident, sexual partner to be very exciting.  Feeling pursued can be a very sexy change. (Hint, Hint!)


#2 Oral Sex

The most common men’s sexual fantasies are about their partner doing things they wouldn’t ordinarily do. Having your partner perform oral sex (if she doesn’t usually perform it) is a really common fantasy, and the best news, no expensive props are required!


#3 Threesomes

What could be better than one woman? Two! Chances are good that dreaming about a threesome is on the list of most men’s sexual desires.


#4 Anal Sex

The fourth most common among men’s sexual fantasies is having anal sex with their partner. Men fantasize about what they aren’t getting, so ladies it’s time to try something new!


#5 Watching Sex

Many men are titillated by watching women pleasure other women. Voyeurism in general is near the top of the list of men’s sexual fantasies. It can be combined with other fantasies, including watching your significant other with another sexual partner or masturbating to orgasm, or even discovering other people in flagrante delicto.


#6 Submission

Many men enjoy sexual fantasies in which the man is more of a passive player.  A lot of men enjoy being submissive, as it runs contrary to the way they experience their lives outside of the bedroom. They enjoy being tied up, teased, tantalized, and spanked.


#7 Exhibitionism

Performing sexually in a public setting is also among men’s sexual fantasies. Fantasies about having sex in public and being watched or discovered can fuel men’s sexual desires.


#8 Domination

For some men, the fantasy of having total power over their partner in a sexual situation can be quite arousing. These types of men’s sexual fantasies might also include bondage and sadomasochistic elements that blend pain with sexual arousal.


#9 Fetishes

Men’s sexual fantasies often include fetishes.  A fetish can involve any number of body parts, such as feet, or objects, such as your lover’s underwear. Often, men’s sexual fantasies are wrapped up in things that typically aren’t included in their sex play. Fantasy is the perfect opportunity to safely experiment with how these fetishes could be included in your lovemaking.


#10 Role Play

For some, a strong men’s sexual fantasy involves dressing up and playing out new roles.  Heterosexual men might favor the character parts of strong men encountering attractive women.


It is important for both men and women to push the boundaries a bit in order to maintain the flame burning throughout the years.  On your next Desire vacation, we invite you to try something, new while enjoying your own private playground.


Source: Some parts of this blog post come from the following article